Love Is in the Air. Will the Royal Wedding Bring a Little Romance Into All our Lives?

So, the long wait is over. After nine years of courtship, Prince William is
going to marry his girlfriend Kate Middleton. The wedding is set to happen
next Summer, most likely in mid-August.

For the media it’s the best news they’ve had in ages. Speculation about the
details – where the wedding will be held, what Kate will be wearing, who’s
going to be William’s best man (Harry, probably) and who’ll be singing in
the church – can now go into overdrive.

What’s certain already, however, is that it will be the biggest and most
lavish Royal Wedding this country has seen since that of William’s parents,
Charles and Diana, way back in July 1981.

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Most of us here at dating-4-over40s.com will remember that occasion well.
The sun came out, we all took a day off work, went to a street party (or
two) and shed a tear as we watched the fairytale Princess in her golden
carriage on television. (Who knew it would end in such tragic
circumstances?)

But the other thing we remember about that time was the unmistakable
romantic atmosphere that took over the country. Love was in the air. Men
treated women like Princesses – and women reciprocated by having their hair
cut just like Lady Di! Apparently, the number of marriages and births rose
significantly during that long hot Summer.

So, the question is: will we see the same thing this time?  Is an air of
romance and magic going to blow away the depressing atmosphere of the past
year or so? Will we see hundreds or even thousands of other couples tying
the knot and exchanging vows inspired by the new Royal couple? Are William
and Kate going to get us all in the mood for love?The answer, almost
certainly, is yes.

All of which, of course, is great news for those of us who are looking for a
little romance and passion in our lives. 2011 may well be the year when we
all get in touch with our inner Prince and Princess. We can’t wait!

Rachel Allan is an expert and professional writer employed by Dating-4-Over40s.

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Love is in the Air

Valentine’s Day instills a sense that love is in the air, but what is the true feeling of love and how does one explain it? We all desperately search for and desire love, believing it will make our lives more satisfying and complete. We all understand the meaning of true love, but do we each feel the same when it hits our heart and soul. I once read that love is friendship caught on fire, it takes root and grows one day at a time.

I have often questioned what love is and if it has a different meaning for each person experiencing it. I have engaged in lengthy conversations with friends about the meaning of love and each seems to vary in their belief, meaning, and understanding of true love. Many described love as the feeling you get when you first set eyes on another and the glow of happiness that overwhelms you. From there, they suggest the rest is history. Is that real love and can it really last?

We have all experienced the feeling of sweaty palms, pounding heart, and the lump in our throat when that special person enters the room. Is it love or like? How about the feeling of not being able to take your eyes or hands off someone, is that love or lust? Is it love or luck if you are with a person who you only want to show off as you stroll down the street? What is love?

Would you consider it love or loneliness when you simply want someone just because you know he/she will always be there? Would you remain in a relationship that lacks emotion because you feel it is the right thing to do. Is that love or loyalty? Would you not leave the one you think you love to avoid hurting their feelings? Is that love or pity? Do you openly tell your partner that you only think and dream of them? It that love or a lie? What is love?

One theory of Love has three components passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion is the physical arousal and feeling of being attracted to someone. Intimacy develops over time through communication and sharing. Intimacy is what makes you want to be emotionally supportive and share your life with another. It presents as a feeling of intense connectedness. Commitment is the promise to continue strengthening and growing the feeling of love and maintaining the relationship. Commitment is the desire to be in a serious relationship and persevere no matter how challenging the tough times may be.

This is only one theory of love, but it expresses three important factors of what truly being in love involves. There is a delicate balance, individual to each of us, for maintain a feeling of true love. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with someone what is the feeling you want to have each time you see that person enter the room. Life is not perfect and presents many challenges, but what is the feeling of love that will make you feel whole?

I believe love is the quiet understanding you have with another and the mature acceptance of their imperfections. Love gives you strength and grows bigger than you. I believe love is the feeling of warmth that comes over you when you think of your partner whether they are near or far. Love is trust and the maturation of a friendship.

When you are truly in love, you should feel calm and secure, unthreatened and relaxed. Real true love will fill you with a sense of being whole and content. It completes the circle of life. Love lifts your spirit making you feel optimistic and instills peace of mind.

Dr. Dionne Kress is a Leadership Development Professional, Business, and Executive Coach. She helps businesses, entrepreneurs, and professionals in leadership roles define and accomplish personal and professional goals. As a Coach, Dr. Kress encourages professionals to explore challenges, successes, general obstacles, and transitions in their personal life, relationships, and profession leading to more effective leadership skills.

 

Dr. Kress has a Doctorate in Management with a focus in Organizational Leadership. She conducted her doctoral research in the areas of coaching, self-awareness, and leadership effectiveness. Her research results were significant, demonstrating how a coaching experience can positively influence an individual’s level of self-awareness and leadership effectiveness, personally and professionally.

 

Prior to establishing her leadership development and coaching practice Dr. Kress had 15 years of successful business management and sales experience including two Fortune 500 companies. While working with her most recent organization she designed and facilitated a leadership-coaching program for high potential sales representatives and managers. Dr. Kress also has 6 years clinical practice experience as a family therapist where she facilitated the process of positive change for both individuals and families.

 

Dr. Kress is currently an adjunct Professor at Medaille College in the Accelerated Learning program. She teaches in both the Masters of Organizational Leadership and Masters of Business Administration programs. Additionally, Dr. Kress is an adjunct Professor at Genesee Community College, where she teaches both Business and Management classes at the Associates level.

 

As a leadership professional and Coach Dr. Kress’ experiences include being a keynote speaker for the 2nd Annual Women’s Weekend in Ellicottville, New York. Dr. Kress was the motivational keynote speaker for the March of Dimes kick-off campaign in 2006. She has facilitated leadership retreats focused upon leadership development; strengths based leadership, team building, and strategic planning. She has worked with both small and large businesses facilitating a process of change, improving business success, as well as individual leadership performance.

 

Currently, Dr. Kress is working as the Chairwoman for the 4th annual Women’s Weekend in Ellicottville, NY. In addition, she sits on the Board of Directors for Hope For Two Women Pregnant with Cancer.

 

Dr. Kress has published research on Proquest Dissertation. She is published in the International Journal of Applied Institutional Governance the article is entitled A Systems Approach to Governance Programs. Dr. Kress writes a weekly motivational inspirational column in The Villager, where she inspires the public with weekly motivational thoughts and insights. Finally, she co-authored a book entitled The Refractive Thinker Vol. III- Change Management.

 

To contact Dr. Kress you can email her at dmkress@dmkress.com or visit her web page at www.dmkress.com.

Music from Australia and New Zealand in the year 1978: JPY’s promo-video for the hit single ‘Love Is In The Air’ (May, 1978), taken from the 1978 album ‘Love Is In The Air’. Note: Written and produced by the legendary George Young (big brother of Angus and Malcolm Young of AC/DC and ex-Easybeats/Flash & The Pan) and Harry Vanda (ex-Easybeats/Flash ‘n’ The Pan), ‘Love Is In The Air’ became JPY’s biggest hit. In spite of John Paul Young being on the Alberts Production label with AC/DC and having hits written and produced by George Young (big brother of Angus and Malcolm of AC/DC), JPY is not blood related to the Young brothers whatsoever. Trivia: This film-clip was shot by Dave Westway for an Australian music show titled ‘Funky Road’. Artist(s) Origin: Glasgow, Scotland, United Kingdom (relocated to Sydney, NSW, Australia) Produced By: George Young — Harry Vanda Label: Alberts Production Chart Position: # 3 (Australia) — # 2 (South Africa) — # 5 (United Kingdom) — # 1 (United States – Adult) — # 7 (United States – Hot) — # 3 (Austria) — # 3 (Germany) — # 9 (Netherlands) — # 2 (Norway) — # 2 (Sweden) Release Date: May, 1978 Artist(s) links: en.wikipedia.org John_Paul_Young www.nostalgiacentral.com music/jpy.htm www.milesago.com JPY.htm ————————————– NZOZ NZOZ1978 1978 Australia Late Seventies 1970′s 1970s 70′s 70s External Tags: George Young, Harry Vanda, Flash ‘n’ The Pan, The Easybeats Musical Terms: Disco, Romantic, AM, Pop, Teen, Love

LOVE (Love is in the air, feel it. The deeper we go, even deeper it becomes.)

Love is in the air, feel it. The deeper we go, even deeper it becomes.

 Each individual in this beautiful world is created by god to fulfill particular role, as we all born with some type of divine fire in us and our efforts give wings to them for goodness.

According to me, there is simple theory of life. Life is like a building, as a base we have our moral values which gives self sufficiency. Then the question arises what are the moral values? So these are nothing but a collection of there nature words are Education, Love/Faith on god, death.

Education which deals with our interaction with social and unsocial things, this is only tool which can sharpen the skills, and unfolds charm and passion in our life. Every one fights for its individuality for the time instant in  his beginning decades but after some time one lose all out form one’s life, then the thing which proceed with huge amount of positive energy in life, which shakes all walks of life in a single moment and give some weight to them. So in my dictionary education is word related to weight which gives the gravity, more acquaintanceships with it lead to higher gravity and grave nature to oneself which is really meaningful.

The most beautiful and successful thing of life is love/ faith on god these both have same meaning the end of love results finding of god, and  faith on god gives extreme feelings of loveliness they both strike at same target at a same time. Love is what, is it god? someone says yes, is it inexplicable feeling? may be yes or not, these are observed, when there was a great discussion on love, during the discussion session  one contestant calmly replied “ love is nothing it is definition of unification  which connects  everything to nothing and again something starts from that nothing, then with this theory love is the only thing which has real perfection in itself because according to unification something starts from nothing this is the only thing which is applicable for only love this can be understood in such a way that in love is normal with anyone and is that   which hits like anything on our back to hold that thing by hook and crook sometimes, and the thing which means actually is   which leads towards  

With this we have idea that love can be like a small point or like as big as universe but it has only one real image. It can not be distinguished  for person to person this I have heard from several people that “ one has different love with one’s mother and yes off course one has different love with one’s girl friend (wife) in a same way different  with one’s sisters” this is nothing an absurd thinking one has, which leads to narrow thinking of one. In my opinion the origin of love is interrelated with origin of earth yet the unification theory of earth is not clearly defined so that love will be coming under lime light when it will be fully defined although it has four special type of figures, which make the picture of love some what clear and justify the above said statement these statements are as follows:

 

 

1)                                                                                                                          Lust/ desire     

2)                                                                                                                          Attraction

3)                                                                                                                          Infatuation/affection

4)                                                                                                                          Care/ insecurity

 

These are the figures which can prove the love as immense pleasure with anyone in this whole world with it’s real and single image and also proves it’s oneness for every one in this whole world.

Now start with mother’s love here in this we find that when a small child born, he feels a warmth energy with one lady and that lady is also source of energy for him. This is a first physical need of small child as time passes needs covers the whole network of desires, here that lady is no one but the one who provides basic survival tool to him and these survival tools are physical needs in a way they work on the latent desire.

When he observe that the second lady with whom he is getting care not providing those tools then he feels extremely strong desire for first lady’s  touch, which works as a positive force towards her and develop the strong sentiments in child with his mother. This results as an attraction.

A small child cries a lot when that lady goes out somewhere  because child is now condition in which  he wants her glimpse every moment, this is nothing called infatuation/affection as strongest force which takes everything in it’s way. 

The same small child when feels some unwanted things happening with same lady he shows anger and tight expressions.

Love with girl friend/wife:

This is most even common thing based on spontaneity, and a kind of flux can be readily found in youths at extreme, it gets diffused in air such a way that even a single personality can breathe it easily and enjoy it fully.

The thing I have observed in it every person can breathe it but many few of people can enjoy it.

In case of girl with whom one has non-blood relationship lust is nothing it’s all about physical desires. one feels the presence of other as according to nucleus theory there is weak nuclear force and strong nuclear force which takes part in stability of atom this theory gives a full support to above said statement, one feel a love making desire with opposite sex in this weak nuclear force drives the emotion out, but in same fashion the strong nuclear force hasten the path of these feelings of one.

But here the strong nuclear force never oppose the meetings of opposite charges, this is the only the thing which drives the emotions in a regular fashion in civilized way, comfort zone is of major concern here and strongest tool, which is distinctive reference frame for everyone, but if one feel like that a small point is getting matched with some one this gives strong shake inside one’s body that is nothing a driving force towards love called Attraction.

 

Change is the rule of nature, but this change can not be observed because time is moving in forward direction but relatively slowly so everything looks like same in a manner as it was before, but there is no hard and fast rule, love has matter which solves this illusion and gives rapid and sudden changes in one’s way of thinking.

When one finds oneself in love, one can observe drastic changes of one’s thoughts in every manner. And the person who is under that love every time wants the source of love near about him means when he and she comes under love they think every time about each other, here  infatuation gives paddle to them.

These are the early stages of love as everything starts from one point and end with the same point because of that everything is balanced, means the cyclic integral of love is always zero because we are the systems for this whole world and love that is a property of us, this does not want the path one has followed, it depends on end points so the care is beautiful and sensible word in love’s dictionary.

It starts from here and goes there from some type transferring media in between that all of sudden the loss is considered, this is what a huge amount positive energy in air.

Now it demands the clarification of cyclic integral of love is always zero, this has been observed every where and every time that what we do, we get back same in a same amount I don’t believe in this because if we go scientifically, we find there friction kind of thing which reduces the effect.

So the amount of care we unfold to anyone it goes to that person and again comes back to us in same way so there is no change to surroundings which again the equation of equilibrium. But the uncertainty and misunderstanding between two give sufficient amount disturbance in this, which really not desirable in love.

So the care is more devoted word for divine work, with this simply one can feel a order of spirituality.

 

 

 

 

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