Love is in the air, feel it. The deeper we go, even deeper it becomes.
Each individual in this beautiful world is created by god to fulfill particular role, as we all born with some type of divine fire in us and our efforts give wings to them for goodness.
According to me, there is simple theory of life. Life is like a building, as a base we have our moral values which gives self sufficiency. Then the question arises what are the moral values? So these are nothing but a collection of there nature words are Education, Love/Faith on god, death.
Education which deals with our interaction with social and unsocial things, this is only tool which can sharpen the skills, and unfolds charm and passion in our life. Every one fights for its individuality for the time instant in his beginning decades but after some time one lose all out form one’s life, then the thing which proceed with huge amount of positive energy in life, which shakes all walks of life in a single moment and give some weight to them. So in my dictionary education is word related to weight which gives the gravity, more acquaintanceships with it lead to higher gravity and grave nature to oneself which is really meaningful.
The most beautiful and successful thing of life is love/ faith on god these both have same meaning the end of love results finding of god, and faith on god gives extreme feelings of loveliness they both strike at same target at a same time. Love is what, is it god? someone says yes, is it inexplicable feeling? may be yes or not, these are observed, when there was a great discussion on love, during the discussion session one contestant calmly replied “ love is nothing it is definition of unification which connects everything to nothing and again something starts from that nothing, then with this theory love is the only thing which has real perfection in itself because according to unification something starts from nothing this is the only thing which is applicable for only love this can be understood in such a way that in love is normal with anyone and is that which hits like anything on our back to hold that thing by hook and crook sometimes, and the thing which means actually is which leads towards
With this we have idea that love can be like a small point or like as big as universe but it has only one real image. It can not be distinguished for person to person this I have heard from several people that “ one has different love with one’s mother and yes off course one has different love with one’s girl friend (wife) in a same way different with one’s sisters” this is nothing an absurd thinking one has, which leads to narrow thinking of one. In my opinion the origin of love is interrelated with origin of earth yet the unification theory of earth is not clearly defined so that love will be coming under lime light when it will be fully defined although it has four special type of figures, which make the picture of love some what clear and justify the above said statement these statements are as follows:
1) Lust/ desire
2) Attraction
3) Infatuation/affection
4) Care/ insecurity
These are the figures which can prove the love as immense pleasure with anyone in this whole world with it’s real and single image and also proves it’s oneness for every one in this whole world.
Now start with mother’s love here in this we find that when a small child born, he feels a warmth energy with one lady and that lady is also source of energy for him. This is a first physical need of small child as time passes needs covers the whole network of desires, here that lady is no one but the one who provides basic survival tool to him and these survival tools are physical needs in a way they work on the latent desire.
When he observe that the second lady with whom he is getting care not providing those tools then he feels extremely strong desire for first lady’s touch, which works as a positive force towards her and develop the strong sentiments in child with his mother. This results as an attraction.
A small child cries a lot when that lady goes out somewhere because child is now condition in which he wants her glimpse every moment, this is nothing called infatuation/affection as strongest force which takes everything in it’s way.
The same small child when feels some unwanted things happening with same lady he shows anger and tight expressions.
Love with girl friend/wife:
This is most even common thing based on spontaneity, and a kind of flux can be readily found in youths at extreme, it gets diffused in air such a way that even a single personality can breathe it easily and enjoy it fully.
The thing I have observed in it every person can breathe it but many few of people can enjoy it.
In case of girl with whom one has non-blood relationship lust is nothing it’s all about physical desires. one feels the presence of other as according to nucleus theory there is weak nuclear force and strong nuclear force which takes part in stability of atom this theory gives a full support to above said statement, one feel a love making desire with opposite sex in this weak nuclear force drives the emotion out, but in same fashion the strong nuclear force hasten the path of these feelings of one.
But here the strong nuclear force never oppose the meetings of opposite charges, this is the only the thing which drives the emotions in a regular fashion in civilized way, comfort zone is of major concern here and strongest tool, which is distinctive reference frame for everyone, but if one feel like that a small point is getting matched with some one this gives strong shake inside one’s body that is nothing a driving force towards love called Attraction.
Change is the rule of nature, but this change can not be observed because time is moving in forward direction but relatively slowly so everything looks like same in a manner as it was before, but there is no hard and fast rule, love has matter which solves this illusion and gives rapid and sudden changes in one’s way of thinking.
When one finds oneself in love, one can observe drastic changes of one’s thoughts in every manner. And the person who is under that love every time wants the source of love near about him means when he and she comes under love they think every time about each other, here infatuation gives paddle to them.
These are the early stages of love as everything starts from one point and end with the same point because of that everything is balanced, means the cyclic integral of love is always zero because we are the systems for this whole world and love that is a property of us, this does not want the path one has followed, it depends on end points so the care is beautiful and sensible word in love’s dictionary.
It starts from here and goes there from some type transferring media in between that all of sudden the loss is considered, this is what a huge amount positive energy in air.
Now it demands the clarification of cyclic integral of love is always zero, this has been observed every where and every time that what we do, we get back same in a same amount I don’t believe in this because if we go scientifically, we find there friction kind of thing which reduces the effect.
So the amount of care we unfold to anyone it goes to that person and again comes back to us in same way so there is no change to surroundings which again the equation of equilibrium. But the uncertainty and misunderstanding between two give sufficient amount disturbance in this, which really not desirable in love.
So the care is more devoted word for divine work, with this simply one can feel a order of spirituality.
pankaj sati
B-Tech (AUTOMOTIVE DESIGN ENGINEERING), FINAL YEAR
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